Missing, missing, missing and missing...............
missing somebody in life is inevitable....when i peep in the past....i realise that one or the other in due course of time, we miss somebody.......
in my 5th std. i missed my only close friend shankari who went off to a far off place due to her father's transfer..
in my 7th std. i missed my neighbour who was send off to her native due to their personal problems...
10th std. was my most difficult time where i was forced to leave many of my friends who chose pure science....
12th std. was the kashta kaalam where i left my school, my teachers, the play ground, the canteen, the chapal, the puliangaai in the pulia maram...and last but not the least... my closest gangs....
i missed my closest dear friend jeyanthi when she joined some other college though we applied togather in various colleges.....
when i was in 1st year i missed my friend ammu who was into a total confusion and collapsed herself.... most difficult time in my life...
3rd year end was a total disaster parting with all the friends but lottta promises n assurances to make me feel better....but...everything went for a toss.....i missed all the fun and my close friends shivachitra, anandu, maniam, viji, sheik, mohan, zahir to name a few....
Oh...my...life's not going to end here...and i still was missing somebody.....
when there was a turning point in my life....my marriage... i missed my dad, mom, only thambi n my sweeeet grannny...
and here i came to chennai and got few good loving friends...and on the move, i missed my close friend who got married and flew to US....
i missed the sweetooo sweet kutti payyan anup who was my neighbour.....
i missed my cousin who was very close to my heart who went away to Europe for his studies......
i missed the variety of fish in our native, missed the cool breeze , missed the friendly atmosphere....
and i understood that life is all about missing...and missing and missing.....But...life still needs to go on...
When people we love leave us we really feel hurt...but tht's the essence of life and we have to carry ourselves inspite of all the missing factors.....
9 comments:
hi jas, wonderful post
\\12th std. was the kashta kaalam where i left my school, my teachers, the play ground, the canteen, the chapal, the puliangaai in the pulia maram...and last but not the least... my closest gangs....\\
அதிகமாக எனக்கு இவ்வாறு நடந்தது 12th படித்து முடிக்கும் போது தான்.
\\When people we love leave us we really feel hurt...but tht's the essence of life and we have to carry ourselves inspite of all the missing factors.....\\
நிஜம்தான்.
Jas.... hmmm.... U r very much correct with relationships we got from our birth.. We can't do much about them leaving.. But there should be some impact on our life when it comes to our love or friendship if its very true..
I agree that great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and its not possible to forget them easily. Its our fate that we always miss some one at particular point of time. but they can't escape from our sweet memories wherever they go. friends may leave but not their memories. so don't worry jas.
anonymous, welcome to the blog...and thanks for the feedback...
Jamaal,indha 12th std.la vandha pirivai easy aa eduthukka mudiyaama naan patta kashtam irukkae... appappaa...nenaikka mudiala...
thamizh..some impact illa.... semmmma impact....
Nice post jas. while reading your post, i also remembered all my friends but its our fate that we miss people at particular point of time. but they can't escape from our memories no? sometimes we should be happy with our sweet memories jas what to do?
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